The Need 。。。

  Been thinking recently about why people were often stuck in a relationship loop and couldn't relieve themselves. Especially for teenagers whose life long targets still seemed far away and the need for self recognition uncontrollably kicking in. With this we can explain why that puppy love or what we called pre-matured relationship usually don't work out fine. It is that under these influences, what we were looking for wasn't quite the definition of love in the adults world. Love often speaks of obligations, responsibility and commitment. What teenagers have are the need to be needed. Of course The Need exist not only for teens, in fact, it is a human nature to feel an emptiness inside that needs to be filled. The difference is that through proper psychological development, we can actually differentiate the feeling generated by our brains whether they are primal or mutual thus avoid unwanted tragedies or fulfill temporal satisfaction, a.k.a, have sex. 

  There are people whose resolution is to shut everything down and concentrate on themselves, fulfilling the need by themselves. Kind of like Hermaphroditism. Obvious cases on people telling the world about career above everything, which is good actually according to current social and moral standard. However, this will not prove the absence of the need but an inversion of the original, the other way round. You need yourself. 

  All in all, just tired.

Yves